Is it Really the Thought that Counts?

Here we are at another Holiday season. The time when every one gathers with family and friends to catch up whats happening, share in a good meal and exchange gifts. 

Now you have all heard it before..."...it's not the gift, but the thought behind it..."

My questions is (in relation to your 'friend' or 'significant other')

Is the gift (what it is) more important or is it the "thought" that really matters?

A lot of thought can be put into a lame gift and very little thought is required to buy the most expensive gift

What do you think?



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Try First!!!

I don't mind helping people when they are unable to do something. I will even go out of my way to be of assistance, but there is one thing that gets under my skin. Don't ask me for assistance if you have not even tried to perform the task for yourself!

I understand that there are exceptions to everything, but, practically speaking, if you have not given something an honest effort, then how do you know your not capable of doing it? Is it just easier to get some one else to do it for you? What happens when there is no one around to help?

I contend that people, often want you to do them a favor, but disguise it behind the "i-can't-do-it" act. They figure that a person is more willing to help if they think the person they are helping, simply, isn't capable. This also plays to the helper's ego, because they get a feeling of being needed. People will quickly get tired of too many 'favor' requests, but are more tolerant of 'helping'.

If you had a friend that was putting together a computer desk and you stopped by to visit for a moment. They have all the parts out the box, spread across the floor and they are holding two pieces in their hands; looking to you they say "how do I connect these together". My question to them is "Have your read the directions?", "Have your tried to use a screw?".... etc.

My point is this... try before you seek assistance! You just may learn something new.

What do you think? 

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Driving me Crazy

Most people can't drive! I really believe that. I ride around and wonder if I was the only one that had to go to driving school. Now we all have our moments, but the things I see on the road are crazy. Be a defensive and on-point driver... an accident is just too much hassle ...even if you aren't wrong

How about:

1. Use a blinker.... You don't want any one hitting your ride and me as the dude behind you ... don't want to hit you. if you about to make a move (pull out of a parking place, changing lanes, turning), throw your blinker on.
2. You see the merge sign just like I did! If you are riding down the road and you see a big flashing arrow telling you that your lane is ending.... just get over don't try to ride the lane out then force your way in... you gain nothing from doing this, maybe a few car lengths.
3. Why are you riding me so close? Give me some space... suppose I have to slam on my brakes.... boom you hit me in the back.... your wrong !
4. Are you racing light to light? We will probably still get there at the same time
5. Don't block the driveway or intersection.... just because your light is red, don't hold me up! Stop short of the driveway or intersection you idiot. It's not like you can go on a red light any way.

OR:

1. Why are you driving so slow.... until I want to pass you.... then all of a sudden you feel the need for speed. It's ok if you want to go slow, but don't hate on me cause I want to go around you
2. Why are you blowing your horn.... the light just changed ... not even 2 seconds ago.... hold your horses!
3. Stop being so nosey. If you wan to know whats happening on the side of the road.... pull over..
4. Please, if your in a hurry and must turn out in front of me ....when there is no one behind me.... then at least keep pace and don't slow me up.
5. Pay Attention!!!!

I could go on and on, but you get where i am coming from ..... what are your driving pet peeves? Read more!